What You Need In Your BDSM ToyBox

degradation-play-1086882-TwoByOneWith the hype surrounding the book Shades of Grey, the underground world of BDSM has skyrocketed. What once was such a taboo topic to talk about is now becoming mainstream. If you and your partner are curious about exploring the world of BDSM here are some essential toys that you need to add to your bedroom toy chest.
Everyone from your grandparents, the church goers to the housewife next door are dabbling in light play of BDSM. BDSM can be anything from acts of spanking or being spanked, caging the penis, wearing blindfolds, being gagged, or being restrained.

Because role playing is also a big part of BDSM where you have a dominant partner and a submissive partner – it is crucial to set clear boundaries and rules before you begin. BDSM done wrong or with no respect can have great physical and emotional damage to all involved. Before you begin your journey into the world of BDSM.

Great so you have educated yourself about BDSM. You have also both set the boundaries, expectations and safe words. It is now time to play with a few toys:

Handcuffs and/or Ankle Cuffs: Used to restrain the submissive partner so that the dominate partner has complete control over them. This feeling of being helpless and at the mercy of another can be quite a turn-on for many. Likewise, being the one to call the shots and have complete control over the sexual arousal of your lover can also be very erotic.

Restraints and Restraint Systems: When your starting off with BDSM play it is important to start off by using simple rope or even silk scarves. Once you are both comfortable with restraining you can heat up the bedroom by investing in a full restraint system.

Paddles and Whips: The unbreakable rule of BDSM is to start with light spanking and build up the intensity as both partners get comfortable. Incorrect spanking can cause internal damage – so it is important to educate yourselves before embarking on any acts of spanking. A general rule is to only spank on the fleshy buttocks or top of thighs

Clamps: Nipple clamps are extremely erotic and they look hot. With a bit of creativity you can find other ways to use the clamps on other parts of the body.

Ball Gags: Remind your partner that he has been bad by attaching a ball gag, it is simply a ball attached to tethers that is fastened around the neck and keeps your “prisoner” from escaping.

Cock Cages: Have your partner thrusting into air, watch on with delight as he looks at you with sexual frustration. Lock his penis up in a cock cage and stop him from having any access to your nether regions

Adding to Your Toy Box: These are just a few of the fun toys that are available, as you both progress and become more confident in the world of BDSM you can find an endless selection of toys to explore your bondage and fetish play – and really up your pleasure dial.